When You Like Someone..

berhabuk da blog nih. hehe assalamualaikum, guys! this time insyaAllah i will keep it short [let us see] this is just briefly tips when you like someone when you're still an immature teenager. or even if you're an adult, these may be useful if you don't want to keep on being crazy.

1. try to avoid him/her. keep on watching him/her will just make you crazier. avoid thinking bout him/her, too. just avoid EVERYTHING about him/her, just.

2. IF you meet him/her, stay cool. stay calm. whenever you see him/her, don't do anything weird. don't scream. don't be crazy. don't be outta control.

3. do not tell anyone that you like him/her. if you do that, tendency for them to support you is high, even accidentally. they will remind and tease you whenever you see that person. if you can't stand the feeling, like me, i will just tell my CLOSEST friend that i like sumone. but i won't tell her who is it exactly.

4. remember Allah and say Astaghfirullah. coz maybe when you kept on 'usya-ing' him/her, you're actually leading to zina. take a deep breath and think rationally.

5. try to forget him/her. it may be syaitans playing with you. try remembering/liking other things. make yourself busy so that you won't be always thinking bout him/her. 

6. ask for someone's advices. it may be your parents, friends, teachers, or counselors. ask questions like what'll u do when u like someone, or how can you hide that you like sumone, blaahh bllaahh. but don't ask things like 'am i suitable for him/her?' -,-

6. if you still can't forget him/her after months, pray to Allah that if he/she is really your destiny, then make it easy in future but NOT now. you're still immature to fall in love. believe me. it's just monyet love laa

5. later when you grow up more and meet him with the same feeling, then it is the time ;D but don't do things against syariah. remember, keep on praying! don't make him/her as your boundary to do good things. 

just remember one thing, do not make it obvious. when it's obvious, then friends teasing you --> you like it more --> he knows --> like each other --> confess --> smiling, dating, etc --> zina.

to girls, most of men love to test your market to see you're strong or not. they may love you as their girlfriends, but they won't make a cheap you as their wife. they love to play.

to men, there're also some girls who love to play cheat. just take a good care of your nafsu and all is well [Rancho ;p]

with that, insyaAllah. i'm just sharing my experience and all. not more than just a normal person who kept falling in love.